7 Behaviour Reflection Sheets | Restorative Classroom Management | Middle & High

Are you struggling to get students to take accountability for their behaviours? These 7 behaviour reflection sheets embed social emotional learning to gain buy-in and support you to create meaningful change.

Confidently lead discussions that break the blame game by encouraging students to unpack their behaviours, explore their emotions, and make a plan for resolution.

With 7 powerful tools, you have the flexibility to choose the best approach for different student needs and circumstances. By using these scaffolds, you’ll be proactively reducing challenging behaviour by embedding emotional literacy, problem-solving, and accountability into your classroom culture.

How You Can Use Your Behaviour Reflection Sheets:

✔ To guide the discussions you are having with students so you feel more confident and equipped to lead on change.

 ✔ As a behaviour agreement or plan for change to revisit in the following lesson or keep on file.

 ✔ To communicate behaviour concerns and resolutions home, keeping parents and caregivers informed.  

✔ As an independent reflective tool for students. Once they are familiar with the scaffolds, this can be used as a way for students to self-regulate and reflect.

What’s Included in Your Behaviour Reflection Pack:

♥ Behaviour Think Sheet: Stop, Plan, Think – Helps students identify their behaviour, recognise triggers, and make a plan for improvement.

♥ What I Can Control – Guides students to shift their focus from what’s out of their control to what they can change, building resilience and problem-solving skills.

♥ Finding the Feelings & The Feelings Beneath the Behaviour – Supports students in identifying the emotions behind their actions and learning more constructive ways to manage them.

♥ Problem Solving Baseball – A fun, structured approach where students ‘pitch’ a problem and work through possible solutions step by step.

♥ Telling My Story (Blank & Prompted Templates) – Ideal for students who struggle with verbal expression, these storyboards help them process and communicate what happened in a structured way.

♥ What’s Really Going On? – A reflection tool that encourages accountability, self-awareness, and creating a plan to make things right.

♥ BONUS: A4 & A3 Posters for visual reinforcement! Perfect for class displays or one-on-one discussions, these posters help embed emotional literacy in your classroom:

 ✔ How Are You Really Feeling? (Emotion check-in tool)

 ✔ Making Things Right (Guides students through appropriate consequences)

 ✔ What’s My Temperature? (Supports self-regulation discussions)

Why These Behaviour Reflection Templates Are a MUST-HAVE in Your Teacher Toolbox:

☞ Students buy in to the discussion! They become more engaged and reflective, rather than defensive.

☞ They provide a clear, restorative framework that encourages accountability without feeling overwhelming or ‘lectured’.

☞ They will boost your confidence on leading discussions that create real change and lead to more desirable behaviours.

☞ They embed emotional literacy and support students to name and understand the feelings beneath their behaviours.

☞ No dull worksheets! They are visually appealing and age-appropriate to keep students engaged.

With this Behaviour Reflection Bundle, you’ll have a proactive, structured approach to behaviour discussions, one that empowers students to take ownership of their actions and helps you feel more confident in leading transformative resolutions!